Darla Schaeffer
Mar. 10, 1943 – Dec. 2, 2019
Darla was born March
10, 1943 in Kenmare, ND,
the oldest of ten children
to Leo and Naomi (Eby)
Schmit. She grew up in
Kenmare and became in-
terested in music at an
early age. Darla began pi-
ano lessons with Sister
Edith at St. Agnes Church
and continued her studies
in piano and singing with
Mother Ruth through her
high school years, gra-
duating in 1961. Darla
played with the family
band and other local
bands until 1996.
Darla was once married
to Jim Wagner. This un-
ion was blessed with four
children. They made
their home in Kenmare.
In 1979, Darla moved to
Minot and entered the
workforce as an advocate
for low income residents
for Trinity Hospital. In
1981, she began working
for the Minot Public Li-
brary, a position she
would hold for the next
25 years. Darla was also
joined in marriage to
Roger Schaeffer in 1981.
She was blessed to add
two adopted children to
her growing family.
Darla remained in ser-
vice at the library to peo-
ple her entire working life
as an information special-ist for those in need of so-
cial services through in-
formation and referral ac-
tivities in Minot. She was
a member of the Mayor’s
Committee for many years
where she served as vice
chair and chair. This po-
sition led to her member-
ship on the ND
Governor’s Committee for
people with disabilities.
She attended national
conferences as an active
member leading to the
betterment of services to
those in Minot. She
served on the board of
Headstart, Domestic
Violence Crisis Center,
Companions For Children
and YWCA. Darla was a
longtime volunteer for the
Souris Valley United Way
and March of Dimes. Her
later years led Darla to the
position of resident
manager of the Parker
Suites. Darla also was in-
volved in a number of
Bridge Clubs in Minot.
She loved the challenge of
the game!
Darla was dedicated to
her children and
grandchildren, but always
was ready to lend a hand
to those in need. She will
be deeply missed and
fondly remembered by all
who shared in her life.
Darla is survived by
her loving husband of 38
years, Roger Schaeffer,
Minot; children Laurie
(Tony) Phelps, Forest, VA,
Lyndie (Jerry) Monson,
Williston, ND, Julie (Rick)
Wagner, Dickinson, ND,
James (Sheri) Wagner,
Minot, ND, Rhonda (Dennis) Tibbetts, Twin Falls,
ID and Rosie Valesquez,
Portland, OR; stepchil-
dren Crystal Schaeffer
and Billy Schaeffer both
of Twin Falls, ID; 9
grandchildren.
Celebration of Life Ser-
vice: Friday, December 6,
2019 at 11:00 a.m. in Zion
Lutheran Church, Minot.
Visitation: Thursday,
December 5, 2019 from
3:00 – 5:00 p.m. at the
Thomas Family Funeral
Home, Minot.
In lieu of plants and
flowers, memorials are
preferred to the donor’s
preference.
Memories and con-
dolences can be shared at
www.thomasfamilyfunera
lhome.com