Gene Melby
Gene Nordtorp Melby,
91, Harvey, formerly of
rural Manfred, passed
away Thursday, No-
vember 12, 2020, at a Far-
go hospital surrounded in
love by his sons Michael
and Arnie. Through video
calls, he was able to see
all of his family and tell
them all how much he
loves them. He passed
away due to the effects of
COVID 19.
Gene was born in 1928
on the family farm west of
Manfred. He grew up as a
part of the Manfred Com-
munity attending Manfred
Grade School and Vang
Lutheran Church. He at-
tended Fessenden High
School where he enjoyed
all things music. He was
part of a barbershop quar-
tet called “The Playboys”
that performed at many
events and also on the ra-
dio. While attending
school he met the love of
his life, Betty Lou
Rodacker. They would
marry in 1948 and eventu-
ally settle at the Melby
family farm near Manfred.
Gene was active on the
boards for Vang Lutheran
Church and Farmers Un-
ion of Manfred. He and
Betty enjoyed attending
the Sons of Norway in
Manfred and also the Ea-
gles Club in Harvey. Gene
was the piano player for
Betty’s many years as
Choir Director at Vang
Lutheran Church and also
played for the dances at
the Sons of Norway Hall.
Many nights, you would
find Gene at the piano in
their family home with
Betty beside him singing.
After 40 years of farm-
ing, Gene retired. Not one
to be idle for long, he
found a job driving senior
citizen bus for the
Wells/Sheridan Transit
Council. In 2003, Dakota
Transit Association
named Gene “Driver of
the Year.” He was very
proud of this award but
you would never know
because he was such a
humble soul.
Of the accomplish-
ments he was most proud
of, nothing compared to
his family. He loved his
children, grandchildren,
and great grandchildren.
He is survived by his chil-
dren, Marsha Melby of
Minot, Bruce Melby of
Manfred, Michael Melby
of Minot, Arnie (Norma)
Melby of San Diego, CA,
and Bergit (Mike)
Albrecht of Apex, NC;
grandchildren, Megan
(Jeff) Blakely, KaDee
Melby and Derek Melby,
Mandy Melby and Ross
(McKenzie) Melby, Iliana
Robledo and Alexis
Melby, Emma Albrecht,
Allison Albrecht and
Ryan Albrecht; and great-
grandchildren, Benjamin
and William Blakely, and
Aiden, Robert and
Arianna Robledo.
Gene was preceded in
death by his wife of 69
years, Betty who passed
away June 8, 2018; their
infant son Brian; his
parents; and 7 siblings.
A private family ser-
vice will be held at Vang
Lutheran Church on Tues-
day, November 17, 2020
at 10:30 a.m. with burial
at the church cemetery.
This service will be
livestreamed on the fol-
lowing link: https://
youtu.be/loqlq0H6G9A
Public visitation will be
held Monday from 2 P.M.
to 4 P.M at the Nelson
Funeral Home in Fessen-
den. CDC recommenda-
tions including social dis-
tancing, hand sanitizing,
wearing a mask and stay-
ing away if not feeling
well are encouraged.
The Melby family
wishes to thank the staff
at Unit B Long-term
Health Facility of St.
Aloisius Hospital in Har-
vey for their kindness,
generosity, and care.
Online condolences
may be shared at nelson-
funeral homesnd.com.