Carolyn Perdue
July 14, 1944-Feb. 6, 2020
Carolyn Perdue, 75,
passed into eternal life on
February 6, 2020 at St.
Vincent’s Care Center in
Bismarck, ND with her
family by her side. Her
death followed a long,
hard-fought battle with
pancreatic and liver canc-
er, exceeding her initial
prognosis by more than
six months.
Her Mass of Christian
Burial will be celebrated
on Wednesday, February
12 at 10:00 a.m. at St.
Michael’s Catholic Church
in Ray, ND. Interment will
be at Highland Cemetery
in Ray immediately fol-
lowing the funeral.
An Evening Vigil with
Rosary, followed by a
time of sharing, will be
held at 7:00 PM, Tuesday,
February 11 at St.
Michael’s Church in Ray.
All are invited to attend.
Friends may call at the
Fulkerson Stevenson Fun-
eral Home in Williston on
Tuesday from 9:00 AM
until 4:30 PM and at the
church on hour prior to
the Vigil on Tuesday and
one hour prior to the
Mass on Wednesday.
Carolyn Fay (Daniel)
Perdue was born July 14,
1944 to Roman and Ardell
(Nyberg) Daniel in Willis-
ton, ND. She was raised
on the family farm located
three and a half miles
west of Ray, ND. She
went to Eden Country
School until the eighth
grade and then attended
Ray High School and gra-
duated in 1962. Carolyn
had a passion for helping
others. After graduation
she enrolled in St. Joseph
Nursing School in Dickin-
son, ND and obtained her
LPN license. She was
once married to Art Per-
due and together they had
three children, Steven, Ju-
lie, and Michelle.
During Carolyn’s life-
time she worked as a hos-
pital nurse but took a
break from her profession
to raise her children. The
family moved to Velva,
ND, where she quickly be-
came involved in every-
thing her kids were, mak-
ing countless trips to and
from town to watch sport-
ing events, to volunteer
her time at the school and
church, and to offer her
help in whatever way she
could. She was also an ex-
cellent seamstress, and in
her children’s teenage
years, she opened her
own fabric store, “The Pin
Cushion,” in Velva, ND.
She loved to help people
with their projects and
took great care in finding
just the right patterns and
fabrics for them to work
with. This, too, turned
into her way of serving
others. Years later, she
renewed her nursing
license and continued her
career at local clinics and
Public Health.
Carolyn loved growing
up on the family farm,
and because of this, she
also became involved in
4-H throughout her life.
She was a member of 4-H
when she was a child,
helped her own children
take part in 4-H, was a
judge at the county fairs,
and later helped her
grandchildren with their
many projects. Carolyn
was extremely active in
her children’s and
grandchildren’s lives, log-
ging many miles as she at-
tended any event they
participated in, always
with her camera in tote.
In her later years, quilting
became her passion. She
vigorously sought out any
little town that had a quilt
shop, and she was known
by many shop owners in
North Dakota and Min-
nesota.
Carolyn’s family and
her faith were always
most important to her.
Her favorite moments
were when her home was
crowded with her chil-
dren and grandchildren,
whether for holidays or
just because. She had a
very personal relationship
with Jesus and confided
in Him always. She often
said, “When I get to
heaven, I’m going to ask
him!” Her family takes
great joy in knowing that
she is now talking Jesus’
ear off! She believed in
God’s providence, espe-
cially, and she often rem-
inded those she loved that
the Lord had big plans for
their lives. She knew dee-
ply that He was in charge,
and her trust in His care
gifted so many she knew
and encountered. She will
be dearly missed!
She was preceded in
death by: her mother and
father, sister Darlene Dev-
lin, and brother-in-law
Daniel Devlin Sr. and
numerous aunts and un-
cles.
Carolyn is survived by:
her children: Steven and
his wife Bernadette (Ray,
ND), Julie Lysne and her
husband Brent (Williston,
ND), and Michelle Oswald
(Frazee, MN); her
grandchildren: Megan
(Brock) Awalt, Matthew
Perdue, Kendra Perdue,
Kelsey Perdue, Brady
(fiancÈe, Megan Kinsella)
Lysne, Emily Lysne,
Jocelyn Lysne, Hailee
Oswald, Madison Oswald,
and Paige Oswald; one
great-granddaughter, Kirie
Awalt; one sister, Beverly
(Irv) Aslakson; numerous
nieces, nephews, cousins,
and friends; and her
beloved cat, Tigger.