Mary Ann Metzger
April 5, 1936-March 30, 2022
Sunrise in this life for
Mary Ann was April 5,
1936 in Grafton, North
Dakota. Sunset was March
30, 2022.
The only child of Wil-
mer and Mary (Knotek)
Krile, she was raised by
her maternal
grandparents, Alois and
Anna Knotek, after the
sudden death of her
mother seven days after
Mary Ann’s birth.
She was raised in a
home of pure love, with
aunts and uncles serving
as siblings for her. When
she began school in Pisek,
ND, she not only had to
learn her ABC’s and arith-
metic, she also had to
learn how to speak En-
glish as her grandparents
only spoke Czech. She
soon not only learned En-
glish, she excelled at it.
From early childhood, be-
ing a writer was her en-
deavor. Her writings as a
young teenage girl are
phenomenal and later,
when busy being married
and raising six kids, she
wrote a story for a maga-
zine contest (Woman’s
Day) and WON! Her story
was published nationally.
Mary Ann met her life-
long love, Maurice
Metzger when she was a
mere 16 years old. He
joined the Army and left
for Germany for two
years, the both of them
writing each other letters
every day. During that
that time Mary Ann
worked as a theater ticket
taker, a helper at the dry
cleaners and as an assis-
tant in a doctors office. A
few days after Maury’s re-
turn to the states in 1955,
they married and began
their journey together.
Mary Ann took her role
as mother to six and
manager of the household
very seriously and re-
ferred to it as her career.
Once the kids were older,
she assisted Maury in
their business by taking
on the role of credit
manager.
Retirement brought
them to Arizona where
Mary Ann enjoyed every
ray of sunshine. Though
they missed their friends
in North Dakota, new and
wonderful friendships
were forged in Arizona,
some of them lasting for
40 years.
After losing her pre-
cious Maury in 2014,
Mary Ann moved to Casi-
ta No. 5 in a Brookdale
Community. She had nev-
er lived on her own before
and she flourished! The
life she did not get as a
college student in her
youth, she thoroughly en-
joyed now, creating more
deep and lasting friend-
ships, dying her hair pink,
green, purple, and some-
times all of the above.
In the words of her BFF
Anne, “she was so much
stronger than anyone
would have thought after
Maury died. It dazed her
for a bit but then she went
into high gear and made a
new beginning. Women
can do that because there
is always someone who
needs our nurturing. So
we pull ourselves up,
throw off the desire to
hide under the covers and
take one day at a time un-
til we forge a new routine
that allows us to live hap-
pily, regardless of the
longing for our loved one,
now gone, that hides in
every corner. Then we
sweep out the corner and
place the particles that
were there into our spe-
cial memory box in our
heart. And that brings
comfort.”
Mary Ann will be dear-
ly missed by many. She is
survived by her children
Michelle (Kelly Hall)
Metzger, Maure Ann
Metzger, Teresa (Todd)
Sanders, Antoinette (Bill)
Horrace, Madonna Swan-
son and Joey (Erin)
Metzger. She is also sur-
vived by her grandchil-
dren Jesse (Andrea), Troy
(Jacki), Janelle (Michael)
Danielle (Chad), Rebecca,
Lukas (Andi), Klaire Ann
(David), Jacob (Rebekah),
Benjamin (Kailey), Ava
(Dan) and Ian (Sara) and
her great-grandchildren,
Grant, Scarlett, JamesKel-
ly, Anthony, Mason, Vic-
toria, Micah, Tyler, Levi,
and soon, a precious new
great-granddaughter.
Also cherishing her
memory and missing her
deeply are many friends
near and far.
Mary Ann would want
you to live in the spirit
she did. No regrets, dye
your hair, wear cool
(Skechers!) shoes, pick up
pretty rocks, and follow
your dreams, no matter
what.
Graveside services will
be 9 a.m. Monday April 4,
2022 at Mountain View
Funeral Home and
Cemetery, 7900 E. Main
St, Mesa, AZ. Arrive in
time to go to front office
and ask where ceremony
will be held.
For those wishing to
make a gift in her
memory, family asks do-
nations be made to Doc-
tors Without Borders.
