Delmer Ostrem
April 10, 1930-June 22, 2021
Delmer Orland Ostrem
was born on April 10,
1930, in Rugby, North
Dakota, and died June 22,
2021, at the Heart of
America Medical Center
in Rugby at the age of 91.
He was the third of five
children born to Carsten
and Alvilda (Erickson) Os-
trem. He attended Sand
Country School through
fourth grade, then attend-
ed Lincoln #2 Country
School through the eighth
grade. He graduated from
Rugby High School in
1948, where he played
football and basketball.
He also was the catcher
for the Junior League
baseball team. He first
met his future wife, Mar-
lys Harmel, in elementary
school, where they be-
came good friends. He
asked her to marry him on
her high school gradua-
tion day, and they were
married at Bethel Luth-
eran Church on July 8,
1950. They began their
life together working for
Lloyd and Viola Blessum
on their farm west of Rug-
by. During that time Del-
mer served in the North
Dakota National Guard. In
1956 Delmer and Marlys
moved to the Sivert Hjelle
farm south of town, where
Delmer had once lived as
a boy. In 1969 they pur-
chased a farm eight miles
south of Rugby, where
they lived until they
moved into Rugby in
1997. Delmer loved farm-
ing and enjoyed running
the combine up to the age
of 90.
In addition to farming,
Delmer drove a school
bus and sports bus for
twelve years. He sold
Behlen buildings for a few
years and worked as a
federal crop adjuster with
the ASCS office. As a
young man he was named
the Jaycees Outstanding
Young Farmer, and Del-
mer and Marlys were
selected as the 1971 Pi-
erce County Farm Family
of the Year. Delmer was
an active member of the
community and served on
several boards: Farmers
Union Oil Company,
Farmers Union Elevator,
ASCS, Heart of America
Human Services, Persilla
Watts Cemetery, Pioneer
Village Museum, Heart of
America Concert Series,
ND State ARC, and Bre-
mer Bank. He served two
three-year terms on the
First Lutheran Church
Council, where he and
Marlys were members for
over 70 years. Delmer
demonstrated through his
actions the importance of
caring for your family, be-
ing a good friend and
neighbor, serving your
church and community,
working hard, and being a
steward of the land.
Delmer is survived by
his wife of 70 years, Mar-
lys Ostrem; eight chil-
dren: Karlene (Tom)
Hatleli, St. Charles, MN;
Keith Ostrem, Rugby; Tim
(Sheila) Ostrem, Rugby;
Melinda (Rob) Lubben, St.
Croix Falls, WI; Cheryl
(Kevin) Hanson, East
Grand Forks, MN; Rick
(Lynne) Ostrem, Rugby;
Lori (Dan) Kellerd, Mel-
bourne, Australia; and Jill
(Nolyn) Fueller, Rugby; 18
grandchildren: Ryan (Ali-
sha) Hatleli, Jay (Sara)
Hatleli, Sara (Ben) Daley,
Carrie Ostrem, Dale Os-
trem, Nick (Kristen) Nel-
son, Natalie (Dustin)
Johnson, Justin (Erica)
Nelson, Erin (Joshua)
Gardner, Allison (Gra-
ham) Gmach, Tanner
(Leah) Hanson, Tasha
(Garrett) Lind, Dianne
Folden, David Folden,
Michael (Jessalyn) Os-
trem, Chantal Kellerd,
Adam Kellerd, and Aliah
Fueller; and 26
great-grandchildren.
He was preceded in
death by his parents, his
father-in-law and
mother-in law Henry and
Selma Harmel, and his si-
blings Harless Ostrem,
Carroll (Bud) Ostrem,
Vivian Affeldt, and Wal-
den (Spud) Ostrem.
Funeral services will be
held at 11:00 a.m. on Fri-
day, July 2, at First Luth-
eran Church in Rugby
with Pastor Sharon Baker
officiating. Burial will be
in the Persilla Watts
Cemetery, Rugby, follow-ing the service. All friends
and family are welcome to
attend. The funeral will
also be livestreamed and
to view the livestream
please click on the link
under his obituary on our
website www.funeralsby
anderson.com
Visitation will be held
Thursday, July 1, from
5:00 to 7:00 p.m. with a
prayer service beginning
at 7:00 p.m. at the Ander-
son Funeral Home in Rug-
by.
Arrangements with the
Anderson Funeral Home
of Rugby. Online registry:
www.funeralsby
anderson.com
