John Diepolder
April 21, 1958-Jan. 5, 2021
On Tuesday January 5th
2021, John James Diepold-
er peacefully passed away
at the age of 62 in Lawton,
OK.
John was born April 21,
1958, in Rugby, ND, to
Donald and Dora (Dionne)
Diepolder. John was
raised on a family farm
5-1/2 miles southeast of
Willow City, ND, with his
nine siblings. He began
his education at the Notre
Dame Academy, Willow
City, ND, and in 1976,
graduated from Willow
City Public High School,
Willow City, ND. John en-
joyed playing sports,
especially playing basket-ball as a “Redwing.” John
studied at North Dakota
State University (NDSU),
in Fargo, ND, where he
majored in agriculture
and political science.
After three years at NDSU
however, he realized that
college was not for him.
In 1979, he began selling
insurance for Combined
and Direct Insurance
Agency, Fargo, ND. John
was a successful in-
surance salesman, win-
ning regional and national
awards from his em-
ployer.
In 1983, John left North
Dakota. As he told the sto-
ry, he didn’t know where
he was going but he want-
ed to get out of the North
Dakota cold weather so he
just “drove south.” By
chance, he stopped in
Lawton, OK, one night.
He didn’t have a job or a
place to live. He was
sleeping in his car his first
night in Lawton and a pol-
iceman knocked on his
window. The policeman
asked John questions and
was ready to tell him to
move along when a small
picture of Jesus fell out of
his pocket and landed on
the ground in front of
them. The two talked a lit-
tle more. The policeman
warmed up to John and
invited him for a meal
and a good night’s rest in
his home. After that, John
knew Lawton, OK, would
be his home and that’s
where he spent the
remainder of his days.
John worked hard and
was always thankful and
proud of the work ethic
that his parents instilled
in him. He was an outgo-
ing “people person” and
gravitated to work that in-
volved interacting with
people. He worked a
variety of jobs, including
from 1983 to 1999: a Law-
ton cab driver; from 1999-
2005: product/car sales-
man, plastic pipe
manufacturer supervisor,
data collector; and, from
2005 until his retirement
in 2015: as a correctional
officer for the State of
Texas at the James V.
Allred Prison in Iowa
Park, TX.
John enjoyed retire-
ment. He was a member
of the Knights of Col-
umbus, St. Vincent de
Paul Society and the
Blessed Sacrament
Church. He was comfort-
able in his bachelor home.
He liked talking with
neighbors, friends, family
and sometimes walking a
couple of miles a day
through his Lawton neigh-
borhood. John remained
in his home until 2020,
when his health declined
and it was necessary for
him to move to the Brent-
wood Assisted Living Fa-
cility in Lawton. There,
still the outgoing John, he
made new friends in his
new neighborhood until
he passed. He made a spe-
cial point in his last days
to tell those dear to him
how much he appreciated
and loved them. That was
John. He was a good guy.
We will miss him.
Survivors include: four
sisters – Ann (Michael)
Brown, Grand Forks, ND;
Mary Diepolder (Rob
Turner), Columbia, SC;
Paula Diepolder (Bill
Fleming), Albuquerque,
NM; and Sarah Diepolder,
Moose Lake, MN; two
brothers – Jim (Colleen)
Diepolder, Willow City,
ND; and Karl Diepolder,
Albuquerque, NM; and
numerous cousins, nieces,
nephews; great-nieces,
great-nephews, relatives
and friends.
He was preceded in
death by his: paternal
grandparents – Walter
and Sylvia (Lizotte)
Diepolder and maternal
grandparents – August
and Hermine (Berube)
Dionne; parents – Donald
and Dora (Dionne)
Diepolder; brothers –
William Diepolder and
Joseph (Joe) Diepolder;
and sister – Lisa Diepold-
er.
Memorial suggestions
include the Dacotah
Foundation, 600 S.
Second St., Suite 308,
Bismarck, N.D. 58504;
701.223.4517, doreene
@dacotahfoundation.org,
in memory of John and
Joe Diepolder.
Due to COVID-19, a
Mass of Christian burial
will be deferred to the
Spring-Summer of 2021 at
Notre Dame Catholic
Church, Willow City, ND,
followed by burial in the
church cemetery. Addi-
tional details will be pro-
vided in local newspapers
and via email in the fol-
lowing months.