Sylvia Marie Lahtinen
Feb. 1, 1944-Sept. 14, 2020
Sylvia Marie Lahtinen,
76, of New Town, died
peacefully on September
14th, 2020, surrounded by
her loving family in Man-
dan after her four-year
battle with multiple
myeloma.
Sylvia was born Febru-
ary 1, 1944 in Carson,
North Dakota to Michael
and Lagata (Riehl) Tisch-
mak. She was raised on
the family farm and at-
tended school in Raleigh
through the 8th grade,
graduating from Flasher
High School in 1962.
Farm life instilled both a
devotion to family and a
strong work ethic in Syl-
via.
In 1964, Sylvia com-
pleted her two-year teach-
ing certificate at Dickin-
son State University,
whereupon she moved to
New Town to teach 6th
grade at Edwin Loe Ele-
mentary School. It was
there, in New Town, that
Sylvia discovered her true
calling as a teacher. She
also found the love of her
life and best friend, Gary.
When Gary was drafted
into the Army in April
1965 and subsequently
stationed in Alaska, Syl-
via maintained a devoted
correspondence with him.
She also returned to col-
lege to advance her educa-
tion to eventually receive
her four-year teaching de-
gree. Sylvia’s early years
of hard work haying and
milking had persuaded
her not to marry a farmer.
But she fell in love with
one, nevertheless. On
June 15, 1965, Gary and
Sylvia were united in
marriage at St. Gertrude’s
Church at a big,
boisterous German
Catholic Wedding. Al-
ways thinking of others,
Sylvia diligently prepared
her fiance for their wed-
ding waltz.
Beginning in 1969, Syl-
via spent her time raising
four children, returning to
her classroom once they
were all school age. She
taught for 31 years in New
Town and retired in 2005.
According to Gary, Sylvia
often told him that the
hardest part of her day
was deciding what to
make for supper. She
made it a priority to find
time for family vacations
every year, she was al-
ways present at her kids’
events, and she volun-
teered as a den leader for
her boys’ Cub Scout
groups. Sylvia loved the
anticipation of spending
time with her extended
family at annual camping
trips. This proud grandma
loved her grandchildren
immensely.
Sylvia maintained
long-lasting friendships
and she enjoyed spending
time with her dear friends
at Kopper Kettle
Klub/Birthday
Club/Homemaker’s Club.
Her faith was especially
important to Sylvia and
guided her throughout her
life, helping her to over-
come breast cancer twice.
She was a Catechism
teacher and a longtime
member of the St. Antho-
ny Catholic Ladies Aide.
After her retirement,
Gary and Sylvia enjoyed
traveling. They took
several cruises and began
her quest to visit as many
national parks as possible.
They did not get to all of
them, but it was not from
a lack of effort. Sylvia had
a long list of hobbies:
Spoiling of grandchildren,
baking, feeding people,
completing crossword
puzzles, gardening,
watching movies (after
carefully reading reviews)
and reading good books.
In fact, during their trav-
els, she was often chided
by Gary for missing out
on the scenery because
she was so busy reading.
Sylvia is, and will be,
greatly missed by her fam-
ily and many others who
knew her. She was a gra-
cious, wonderful,
genuine, humble, and
kind person. She was self-
less and always put others
first. She was truly beauti-
ful.
Family: Sylvia lives on
through her husband,
Gary, children; Sydney
(Marnie), Lenae, Lucas
(Nicholette), and Nathan;
Grandchildren; Noah,
Leif, Sylvie, Ian and Van
Lahtinen, Reeve Garcia,
Lander, Lucy, Kinsey and
Aimee Lahtinen; siblings,
Marvin (DeLoris) and Tim
(Judy) Tischmak, and
Genny Russell; sisters in
law; Carmen (Dale)
McGrady, Debbie Jane
Lahtinen; brothers in law:
Warren and Jeff (Sandra)
Lahtinen, and numerous
nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in
death by: her parents;
brother, Darrell;
father-in-law, Emil and
mother-in-law, Sylvia.
Mass of Christian Buri-
al: Saturday, September
19, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. at St.
Anthony Catholic Church,
New Town (please ob-
serve social distancing
guidelines)
Visitation: Friday, from
noon to 5:00 p.m. at
Langhans Funeral Home,
Parshall.
Vigil Prayer Service
and Rosary: Friday at 5:00
p.m. at the funeral home.
Interment: New Town
Cemetery
Online condolences
may be shared at
www.langhans
funeralhome.com.