Audrey Sidener
Nov. 29, 1949-Feb. 7, 2020
Audrey J. Sidener, 70,
Minot, passed away on
Friday, February 7, 2020
in her home.
Audrey Jean Midden-
dorf was born November
29, 1949 in Minot, ND to
Urban and Genevieve
(Linnertz) Middendorf.
She was raised on the
family farm southeast of
Grano, ND, and attended
Grano Public School for
two years.
Audrey had a deep
respect and love for her
parents and all of their
neighbors from that area.
She was proud to be from
Grano, ND, and with a
smile on her face she
often reminisced about
those days growing up on
the farm. The family later
moved into Lansford, ND,
where she graduated from
Lansford High School in
1967. She attended Minot
State Teachers College,
until the love of her life
swept her off her feet.
On May 25, 1968 she
married Steve Sidener at
St. John’s Catholic
Church, Lansford, ND.
Following their marriage
the couple lived in Max,
ND, where Steve taught
school. In 1970, they
moved to Minot, and Au-
drey began her career at
Minot State University.
She took a break from
MSU to raise their sons.
While at Minot State she
held several different po-
sitions during her career,
retiring in 2009 as Admin-
istrative Assistant to the
Vice President. Audrey
enjoyed her time at MSU
and a big part of that was
due to the students, facul-
ty, and staff she met
throughout her career,
and the life-long friend-
ships that were made.
Following Audrey’s re-
tirement, she and Steve
spent several winters with
their son Scot at his home
in Arizona. It was there
where she met all of his
friends and loved them all
as her own. She enjoyed
the warm weather, and
the social events that took
place, like the annual
Lansford reunion held in
Mesa.
Audrey loved being the
co-pilot to Steve on their
travels. They travelled to
49 states, excluding
Hawaii, and 9 Canadian
Provinces. Scot also
managed to take them
both to Guatemala. She
often claimed if she told
Steve to go left on their
travels, he went right,
never listening to her, but
they always made it to
their destination. In her
spare time between trav-
els, she enjoyed their time
on the water fishing.
She often texted Casey
pictures of their limits of
walleye they’d caught,
while he was at work. You
could hear her chuckle
through those messages.
She loved to rub it in.
She loved the drives in
the country with Steve.
Through out her illness,
when she felt up for it,
they traveled rural North
Dakota, often stopping for
lunch in different towns.
Audrey was very
proud of her three
grandchildren, and en-
joyed following their
events, be it football,
basketball, volleyball,
track, or tracking a buck
shot with their bows. She
loved it all, and was
proud of their accom-
plishments. She always
remained active in their
lives, giving them a push
and a little direction along
the way. Her wish was
that they continued to
show respect for others,
always be available to
help those in need, and
just be kind. She wanted
them to hold good
memories of her in their
hearts, and we assured
her that wouldn’t be a
problem.
Audrey and Steve cele-
brated their 50th Anniver-sary in May of 2018.
Shortly after, she was di-
agnosed with small cell
lung cancer. She told her
family she would give er
hell, and that is what she
did, she fought to the very
end. Through all her
struggles, she never com-
plained, and never gave
up. She was thankful that
she was given the oppor-
tunity to say good-bye to
those she loved. In her
words, “most don’t get
this opportunity.”
Mom was a fabulous
cook, she loved to bake,
enjoyed gardening, can-
ning, and loved family
gatherings. She and her
brother Bob had many
conversations on whose
cucumber plants had the
most blossoms, the bigger
cukes, or whose pickles or
salsa tasted the best. Back
and forth they’d go, then
laugh. With Mom fighting
her own battle, she strug-
gled with the loss of her
brother, Bob, as did many
others. We pray they are
resting easy enjoying a red
beer together.
Audrey volunteered at
the Catholic Schools in
Minot, while her sons at-
tended. She was a
member of Minot State
University Staff Senate, a
former member of Little
Flower Catholic Church,
and currently a member at
St. John the Apostle
Catholic Church, all in
Minot.
We would like to thank
our dad first and
foremost, for the care he
showed Mom, through out
their marriage, but espe-
cially this past year, dur-
ing her illness, and in her
final days. She could be
tough at times, but dad
knew how to care for her
in a way she accepted.
They were inseparable,
and a role model for their
sons and grandchildren to
follow. We would also
like to thank all our fami-
ly and friends for the
visits, dinners and
desserts this past year. We
do appreciate the kind-
ness shown, and couldn’t
have made this journey
without you. Thank you
to all the staff at Trinity
Cancer Care and Trinity
Hospice. Mom loved each
and everyone of you, and
was thankful you were
there, to help her, and her
family through this pro-
cess. Thank you to Father
Richter, Father Phillips
and Deacon Kramer, for
their visits and prayers.
We would also like to
thank Margaret Kendall
for her visits every Sun-
day to pray and give Mom
communion, she looked
forward to those visits. As
Audrey would say, “I love
you all from the bottom of
my heart!”
Those who shared in
Audrey’s life: Husband,
Steve, Minot; sons, Casey
(Rhonda) Sidener, Minot;
Scot Sidener, Scottsdale,
AZ; 3 grandchildren,
Brynn, Hunter and Bren-
na Sidener, all of Minot;
sister, Helen (Doug)
Groves, Minot; sisters and
brother-in-law, Vicky
Middendorf, Westhope,
ND, Jackie (Pat) Limke,
Minot, Marcia Schuler,
Bismarck, Mike (Marie)
Sidener, Paula Sidener
and Susan Peterson, all of
Minot; numerous nieces,
nephews and cousins sur-
vive.
Audrey was preceded
in death by: her parents,
Urban and Gen Midden-
dorf; brother, Bob Mid-
dendorf; father and
mother-in-law, R.T. and
Helen Sidener, Jr; and
brother-in-law, Dick
Schuler.
Mass of Christian Buri-
al: Saturday, February 15,
2020, at 10:30 a.m., at St.
John the Apostle Catholic
Church, Minot, ND.
Visitation and Vigil
Prayer Service: Visitation
will be Friday, February
14, 2020 from 5:00 to 7:00
p.m. with the vigil prayer
service at 7:00 p.m. all at
St. John’s Catholic
Church, Minot.
Burial: St. John’s
Catholic Cemetery, Lans-
ford, ND, at a later date.
In lieu of flowers
memorials are preferred
to St. John’s Catholic
Cemetery Association,
Lansford, ND, Trinity
Cancer Care, Trinity Hos-
pice, St. Jude’s Children’s
Hospital, or to an organi-
zation of the donor’s
choice.
Thompson-Larson Fun-
eral Home, Minot