Shirley Ann Ilyn (Tryhus) Meyer
Aug. 12, 1931 - Nov. 7, 2019
SCOTTSDALE – Meyer,
Shirley Ann Ilyn
(Tryhus), age 88 of Scotts-
dale, Arizona, passed
away November 7, 2019
after a courageous battle
with cancer. Shirley was
born August 12, 1931 to
Alvin and Sylvia (Rost-
vedt) Tryhus in Minot,
ND. She graduated from
Minot Model High School
and attended Minot State
Teachers College. On a
blind date, she met the
love of her life, Damian
John (Butch) Meyer. They
married in 1950. They
raised their four children
in Grand Forks and Fargo,
ND, and then moved to
Scottsdale, AZ in 1979.
In the early 1970’s Shir-
ley was very proud of
owning The Denim Works
clothing store located in
Block 6, Fargo, ND. She
was active in local politics
and devoted her time sup-
porting all her children’s
extra-curricular activities
and endeavors in Fargo
public schools. She was
active with her friends in
bridge clubs, potlucks,
bowling and couples
dance clubs over the
years. Shirley and Butch’s
home was always filled
with music, especially
during the holidays. Their
love for music was cer-
tainly passed on to their
children and each new
generation.
Shirley and Butch sum-
mered at a cottage on Lake
Melissa, in Detroit Lakes,
MN. Cherished lake visits
were the focus of many
family gatherings over the
past 50 years.
Upon moving to Arizo-
na, she became a realtor
with John Hall & Associ-
ates. In addition to being a
top real estate agent in
sales, she managed many
rental properties and kept
her license even after her
retirement in 2009.
She was truly a force in
this life, with pure joy
and pride for her family.
She was an incredible
mom, grandmother and
great grandmother, who
loved her family above all
and was happiest when
they were all together. Al-
ways in style, Shirley was
a true beauty at every age.
She took great interest in
what was going on in the
world, was an avid sports
fan and loved connecting
with family and friends,
especially through Face-
book. She has touched so
many lives and fond
memories of her will live
on in all of us for years to
come.
The family would like
to extend special thanks
to her wonderful care-
giver, Deanna, the atten-
tive staff at West Drive Sr.
Living and Hospice of the
Valley.
Shirley was preceded
in death by her parents,
her husband, Butch, and
her sister, Janice (Tryhus)
West. She is survived by
her children, Bruce (Janet)
Meyer, of St Louis Park,
Mn, Jayne Meyer Hough-
ton, of Scottsdale, AZ, Jef-
frey (Alison) Meyer, of
Scottsdale, AZ, and Lisa
(Greg) Cole, of Scottsdale,
AZ. 12 grandchildren,
John (Jill) Meyer, Scott
(Julia) Meyer, Daniel
Meyer, Stephen (Amanda)
Houghton, Laura Hough-
ton, Lindsay (Aaron) Feld-
berg, Austin Meyer, Philip
Meyer, Zachary Meyer,
Justin (Megan) Cole, Ash-
ley Cole, and Dylan Cole;
and 10
great-grandchildren.
A Memorial Service
will be held at 2pm on
Monday, December 16, at
Ascension Lutheran
Church, 7100 N Lincoln
Drive, Paradise Valley, AZ
85253. Greetings with the
family to begin at 1pm.
An additional Celebra-
tion of Life will be held
next summer at the family
cottage on Lake Melissa,
Detroit Lakes, MN, under
her favorite willow tree.
Interment will be at Fort
Snelling National
Cemetery in Minneapolis,
MN, next to her husband,
who was a Veteran of the
Korean War.
In lieu of flowers,
memorials preferred to
Ascension Lutheran
Church(above) or Shore-
ham Chapel, Shoreham,
MN. Addressed to 6817
Point Drive, Edina MN
55435.