Shirley Haakenstad
March 16, 1930-June 16, 2021
Shirley D. Haakenstad,
91, Bismarck, formerly of
Minot, died Wednesday,
June 16, 2021 in a
Bismarck Medical Center.
Shirley was born on
March 16, 1930 at Grand
Forks, North Dakota the
daughter of Russel and
Sadie (Moen) Lillico. She
was raised at Nekoma by
her father and grandmoth-er after the death of her
mother from tuberculosis
at the age of 3 months.
She graduated from Neko-
ma High School and then
attended the Bottineau
School of Forestry, where
she met her future hus-
band, Duane Haakenstad.
They were united in
marriage on August 19,
1950 at the First Pres-
byterian Church in Minot.
They began their marriage
living at Olympia, Wash-
ington, while Duane was
stationed with the U.S.
Army National Guard.
She then lived at Bot-
tineau until Duane re-
turned from his service in
Korea during the Korean
Conflict. They moved to
Minot in 1952. Along
with raising their four
daughters, Kathy, Mar-
jorie, Mary and Debra, she
was employed with the
Minot Public Library
Bookmobile for several
years and Green Stamp
Store. Duane died August
8, 2009. She had made
her home at ProHealth As-
sisted Living for almost 2
¢ years, then the Baptist
Home in Bismarck.
Shirley was a longtime
member of First Lutheran
Church in Minot, where
she was active with the
quilting group, birthday
club and circle group. She
was also active with the
Son’s of Norway, Hostfest
and a local homemakers
group.
Shirley’s loving family
includes, children, Mar-
jorie Jean Taylor, Minot,
Mary Lynn (Jari) Kariluo-
ma, Bismarck, Debra Kay
(Mark) Nelson, Minot; son
in law, Bill Headrick,
Minot; 6 grandchildren; 8
great grandchildren.
Shirley was preceded in
death by her parents, hus-
band of 58 years, Duane,
daughter, Kathy Headrick,
infant son, Dwight, broth-
er, Robert and grandsons,
Christopher Taylor and
Michael Taylor.
Celebration of Life ser-
vice: Tuesday, June 22,
2021 at 2:00 p.m. in First
Lutheran Church, Minot.
Livestream: A lives-
tream of the service can
be accessed by going to
Shirley’s obituary page on
the funeral home website.
Interment: Rosehill
Memorial Park, Minot.
Visitation: Monday,
June 21st from 5:00-7:00
p.m. in Thomas Family
Funeral Home, Minot.
Memorials are preferred
to an organization of the
donor’s choice.
Those wishing to sign
the online memorial regis-
ter, view the livestreamed
service or share memories
are invited to use the fun-
eral home website at
(www.thomasfamily
funeralhome.com)