Gary S. Nelson
May 18, 1941 – Nov. 16, 2019
Gary S. Nelson, 78 of
Stanley, N.D. passed
away November 16, 2019
at MCMC hospital in
Stanley.
Gary was born to Albert
and Edna (Byington) Nel-
son on May 18th, 1941.
He was the 11th child of
11 children in the family.
He married Jenette
Kulczyk Schule on June
30th, 1963. They were
married for 56 years.
Gary was an educator,
farmer, rancher and bank-
er. He attended UND
and Minot State Universi-ty as well as Superior
State College where he ob-
tained a specialist degree.
He was an investment
banker at Midland Bank
in Minneapolis, Minneso-ta before moving to Wash-
burn, Wisconsin where he
taught grades K-12 and
coached several sports.
He was also the Ski
School Director at Port
Mountain near Bayfield,
Wisconsin during that
time.
He brought his young
family back to Stanley in
1971, where he worked at
Scandia American Bank,
farmed, ranched and was
a volunteer fireman. He
was later elected
President of the North
Dakota Independent
Bankers.
Gary served on many
boards in his community.
He also held state and na-
tional organizational of-
fices for professional ski
instructors and pool
players. Gary refereed
pool competitions in Las
Vegas. He was an exa-
miner for the professional
Ski Association and men-
tored many in obtaining
their credentials in both
the fields of skiing and
pool competition.
It was very important to
Gary to help others to
reach their potential, and
he made special efforts
with the young. His
children, Scott and Ann
were the joy of his life
and he spent much time
with them. (He also
holds the distinction of
being the only man who
was able to teach his wife
to ski.)
The greatest trauma in
Gary’s life was when his
daughter, Ann, was killed
on 9/11 while working as
a Bond Broker for Cantor
FitzGerald in the World
Trade Center. One of the
things that saved his and
his wife’s sanity was that
their son, Scott, his wife,
Dawn Jensen Nelson, and
five grandchildren lived
in Stanley during the
years that followed and
shared their lives. Anoth-
er was the building of
Annie’s House Adaptive
Recreation program (in
cooperation with Anne
Carlson School). The
work there with the dis-
abled and wounded warri-
ors seemed to keep Ann’s
spirit alive. Gary spent
many hours instructing
skiing there.
Annie’s house is a colla-
borative effort by New
York Says Thank You
(founded by Jeff Parness),
Bottineau Winter Park
and friends and family.
The initial effort began
September 9, 2012, when
250 people from 23 dif-
ferent states arrived to
build the house. It was
then completed by faith-
ful volunteers.
Gary was preceded in
death by his parents and
all his siblings as well as
his daughter, Ann. He is
survived by his wife,
Jenette; his son, Scott; his
daughter -in-law, Dawn
Jensen Nelson; grandchil-
dren; Brittany Giesen (Jor-
dan), Brooke Nelson, Jesse
Nelson, Jeremiah Nelson
and B Nelson;
great-grandchildren,
Madison and George
Giesen; numerous
nieces, nephews and fam-
ily members.
Memorials are pre-
ferred to MCMC, Box 399,
Stanley, ND 58784, Ina
Mae Rude Aquatic Center,
PO Box 173, Stanley, ND
58784, Giving Hearts
Home Care LLC, PO Box
371, Stanley, ND 58784,
Annie’s House Adaptive
Recreating Program,
Winter Park Road, Bot-
tineau, ND 58318, or New
York Says Thank You
Foundation, 2472 Broad-
way #236, New York, NY
10025.
His memorial service
will be held at 10:30 am
on Monday, November 25,
2019 at American Luth-
eran Church in Stanley,
ND. Pastor Sarah Soren-
son will officiate. A
private family burial ser-
vice will be at a later date.
Friends may call one hour
prior to services at the
church.
Springan Stevenson
Funeral Home of Stanley
is assisting the family.
Friends may sign the on-
line register and share
condolences at
www.springanstevenson.c
om.